Flower women or Fruit women?

Of all the comparisons that you can make between women and objects, I think this one is the best.  If you think about it some women are like pretty Flowers.  Beautiful to look at, they smell nice, they often stand out and make a room shine. They are often used by men to draw attention to themselves, or used to decorate places, objects, or things. They usually have a nice slim stalk and pretty petals to look at, but that’s about it.  They can only serve a sensory or decorative purpose, you can’t live off of them because most contain no true sustenance. And they don’t remain pretty once they are removed from their perfect environment. And without that constant care and maintenance they demand, they will quickly wither and become ugly and useless.


However the women that are compared to Fruit, well they look nice also.  Some are smaller like Strawberries and Grapes, others a little bigger like Apples and Oranges, and some even bigger like Melons and Cantaloupe.  And when they are young and ripe, they too look and smell nice, and you can some what use them to spice things up.  But Fruit unlike Flowers, do offer sustenance, and they taste good as well.  So not only can you enjoy their beauty, you can gain true value from them.  Even once they’re removed from their growing environment, with the right love and care, they can continue to grow and become even sweeter.  And unlike Flowers, some Fruit can age gracefully and become an evolved Fruit.  Likes Grapes becoming raisins, Plums becoming Prunes, or Figs becoming Dates. They may become old and wrinkly but, they will last longer and will still taste sweet and offer you sustenance.


Lets me take this one step further, when men are little boys they don’t care about the way a girl looks or smells. They just care about how fun they are, and if they are a good friend or not, and what value they bring to the friendship. Some boys grow up and lose that innocence, and they are taught to pick Flowers, and the more rare the better.  But the problem with that mentality of going for just looks and the trophy of having that rare Flower. Is that Once her petals begin to wither, you become bored and quickly discard her, and pick a fresh Flower.  And you go through your whole life, picking Flowers, never to find that one exotic Flower that will remain perfect forever.  Because when you are young you dont realize that no matter how much fertilizer, sprays, or fancy flower pots you put that Flower in, eventually it will become wrinkled and useless.


Now some smart little boys always keep their love of Fruit , and when they grow up and don’t go after Flowers .  As a matter of fact they learn how to take care of that Fruit, and they pollinate together and reproduce even more Fruit. And as his Fruit gets old she can preserve herself and still be pretty and provide sustenance.   Now caution in extreme cases Fruitcan really preserve itself and be made into wine or Liquor.  Then her life can be prolonged for an even longer time. She will still provide you with some reduced sustenance, but you will be drunk. But then at least will make you happy and it will help you to forget about your problems. And that can even take away some of those aches and pains that you get when you are older.  But in either caseFruit is incredible for the long haul of a marriage and relationships.  It’s no wonder that some men prefer those Pear shaped women, or the ones with Apple bottoms. And dont forget about those Melons on women, we so often hear men talk about.


Now to be fair they’re also Vegetable  women that just offer sustenance, but don’t smell or look nice. And CookieCandy and Cake women that are very sweet to eat, and offer some sustenance, but they will only make you fat and unhealthy.  But I digress, and that’s another compariason we will discuss later.


So whats my perfect type of woman?  When I was a young boy I was a FARMER so I loved Fruit , but like all little boys I also liked CookiesCandy and Cake as well, even though I knew it wasn’t good for me.  And I tried my best to stay away from Vegetables.  When I was a teenager and then up to my late 20′s I avoided Fruits and Vegetables, and I picked many rare Flowers. (Some people would have even called me a FLORIST :)  Then when I was in my 30′s I went afterFruit primarily, but sometimes ended up with Flowers. During that time I learned many valuable lessons about picking too many Flowers, or the wrong type of Flowers, or trying to live on just Flowers alone.  And I learned the most important lesson of not picking another mans Flower.  I also learned hard lessons about not nurturing my Fruit properly and letting it spoil.  Or just letting my Fruit go for a Flower that popped up on the other side of the fence, because I mistakenly thought that it would be better to have the pretty Flower in the vase on a pedestal.  Instead of the Apple pie in the oven, if you know what I mean.


So now after all this, who is my perfect women?  Well she is a woman that starts off as Flower and becomes Fruit. Just like an Apple or Cherry blossoms can become Apples and Cherries, other Flowers can become Grapes and Passion fruit. The best thing about having a Flowering Fruit woman is that she is beautiful when she is younger.  And she will become even better with age. If she is nutured properly and allowed to grow in her natural environment, she will grow to become a life giving and sustaining Fruit.  As long as she stays a healthy Flower and doesn’t pollute herself with pesticides and chemicals.  And doesn’t pollinate with the wrong men, she will grow into a life sustaining Fruit.  But she can’t be picked too young and forced to be Fruit.  She can’t be  put in a pretty vase and expected to stay a Flower forever.  No matter how many time you change the water and add chemicals, her petals will eventually wither and wrinkle.  But a Flower that has become Fruit, may age and wrinkle, but it will still be sweet and be able to feed and nourish you when you are old. I guess my experiences in life have taught me a thing or two about  Flowers andFruit.  And even though I grew up as a young boy being a FARMER.  I still remember what it was like to be a FLORIST, and don’t get me wrong it had its up and downs.  But I know I am the happiest with Flowering Fruit,  and life is just great being a GARDNER :)


Fin: Sir Hombrebailador


Loves Warrior

I am an experienced warrior on the battle field of Love. I have fought many battles and claimed many meaningless victories. I have many wounds and scars from those battles, those wounds have made a callus around my heart. And the battles have made me a stronger warrior. I have learned to protect myself in battle from all angles and possible attacks. I have learned to attack my opponent with speed and skill before they can gain the advantage on me. I have acquired the armor necessary to protect myself from all that have tried to twist and manipulate my heart. I was once a young squire playing with swords hoping one day to be a gallant Knight. Now I am just a battle weary Knight hoping to be a young squire again. I am tired of the lies, and politics of Love. I am tired of having to constantly look over my shoulder, worried that one of my own will betray me for another. Betray me for gold, fame, a bigger castle, or a Knight with a more pleasing face. I am saddened that maidens no longer expect or accept chivalry. I am saddened that there is no honor amongst noble men and women. I am saddened that there is no more magic in the world. And I am saddened that a person’s word is no longer their bond, everything must be written and witnessed or it won’t matter if you betray it. I have taken many easy victories, it has becomes childsplay to best an opponent. None are worthy, none are a challenge, none are deserving of my true abilities. None understand my true ambition or goals. I have fought and won too many battles, and never truly enjoyed victory. I no longer want to pretend to be the Knight everyone expects me to be. I never wanted to be that Knight, but this is the only Knight the maidens will accept. I want to be a Knight that can finally remove his armor, and truly heal his wounds. I want to be a Knight that has a maiden that he can truly Love, protect, and trust. I no longer wish to battle opponents. I no longer want to enjoy the company of many maidens. I want to believe in magic again. I think you are that one special female warrior that understands me. You have fought the same battles that I have, and dealt with the same betrayers that I have. I want someone that is my true equal both on and off the battlefield. I want someone that will watch my flank when I am in danger. I want someone that will react to my thoughts, before I speak them. I want someone to defend my honor against anyone that would dare stain it in front of her. I want to share my kingdom with that maiden. I hope to share my life one day with a Queen like you. But Alas this poem has fallen on deaf ears, because I am still on the battlefield and you are still asleep. Waiting naively to be awoke with a kiss from the Prince you destroyed long ago.  Fin

Sir Hombrebailador

Pole Dancing soon to be an Olympic Sport!

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So I know what you are thinking why am I, a serious dance enthusiast, talking about pole dancing? Because it’s freaking amazing that’s why!  These dancers are not the strippers that your Grandmother warned you about.  And in all honesty most of them are not strippers at all, but serious dancers or fitness enthusiasts.  Pole dancing is now considered a form of performance art, its no longer associated just with strip clubs and loose women. As a matter of fact it was greatly influenced by the Chinese pole acrobats, who perform in a non-erotic stage performance or circus environment.  And pole dancing has recently gained popularity as a form of fitness, a growing number of gyms and dance studios offer classes, usually in private rooms away from the eyes of gawking men.  And I have literally seen a Church group advertising a pole dancing class in their recreation center, for women only of course.  Plus there are a wide range of amateur and professional competitions that are held in many countries around the world.  Through my extensive research on the internet looking for pole dance information, I have seen the videos of champions from Japan, Russia, Argentina, Australia, the Ukraine, Brazil, Spain, the US, and many other countries.  And I predict with the growing craze around the world and the intense strength, acrobatics, and concentration required to do this sport.  I think pole dancing could become an Olympic sport eventually, well that’s my opinion at least.   Because these girls train hard, and they have the core, arm, and leg strength of Olympic level gymnasts. Now I am not saying sign your daughters up and teach them to work a pole at 12 so they can go on to compete in the World Pole Dancing Championships when they are older.  But if you are over 18 years of age and you want to hone your skills, then more power to you.  And take my word for it, the coming wave of artistic pole dancers are a force to be reckoned with.  Well actually you don’t have to take my word for it I am including some pics and videos showcasing some insane pole dancing skill.  Like I said earlier I have done extensive research on YouTube (not strip clubs), looking for the best pole dancing videos I could fine, and this woman is one of the best I have ever seen.  She is amazing, artistic, and passionate like any great jazz dancer. She gained fame on the TV show Ukraine’s Got Talent and her name is Anastasia Sokolova. She has great skills like most great pole dancers, but she adds a level or professionalism and art that I have so far seen unmatched. And like a true performance artist her set design and costumes are amazing. For example the first video featured below is full of sharp poles that look like she would be impaled on one if she made one mistake, but don’t worry she’s completely safe.  She also has picked great music and is performing to El Tango De Roxanne from the Moulin Rouge sound track, performed by José Feliciano. And if you like her pole dancing skills, search her name on YouTube, she has a lot of other videos that are just as awesome with more really cool sets and costumes.

This next girl is one of my favorites as well, I don’t know her name or if she has won any competitions.  But the performance seen in this video is competition worthy, even if it is really raw and sexy.  She has an amazing body and her movements are animated like she’s moving in reverse.  And her strength and ability to go up and down the pole, either upside down or right side up, are simply amazing.  When you combine all that with her body’s flexibility and many of the one-arm tricks she performs, this all makes her also one of the best you will ever see.  Oh and the song she chose is awesome also its Paradise Circus (Zeds Dead remix) by Massive Attack.

And next up in my world tour of pole dancing is Yukari Makino Pole Dance Champion of Japan in 2011 and 2012. The other girls in the videos I presented showed sex appeal, power, agility, athleticism, and passion. Yukari has all that as well, but her strong point is grace and elegance. Just looking at her costumes you can tell she is more reserved than most pole dancers, but that’s to be expected because Japan is all about honor and pride. With that said, if any of these women were being judged for doing ballet while pole dancing, it for sure would be Yukari that wins that title. During the times that she was on the floor moving from pole to pole I thought I was watching a great ballet performance. And when she was on the pole it looked as if she was performing ballet upside down and defying gravity. It’s no wonder that she is the champion in Japan for pole dancing 2 years in a row. I don’t know the name of the songs she’s using, because it changes a few times in her mix, but no matter what the title of the music was, it suited her dance style perfectly.

Now people I know what you are thinking why would any self respecting girl pole dance? Or I don’t want to see these STRIPPERS shaking their butts!  Hey give these girls a chance and watch the videos, they will change your mind about their skill and their talent. They have trained and worked their bodies to physical perfection and they deserve a chance to change your mind. And besides ladies, men are in on the act as well, and they compete also, either solo or partnered with a woman or other men.  They utilize their power and strength to pull off similar incredible moves done by male gymnasts.  Plus like I mentioned earlier and as you will see in video number 4, in China pole performing is done by men and women.  And these men show the strength and agility that most pole dancers have, only times ten.  After all they have had a big head start on the rest of the world when if comes to acrobatics and they were the originators of pole performing.  There is even a pole gymnastics competition in India called Mallakhamb, where men do incredible power moves and hang upside down from a pole with just their legs, that’s video number five.  And believe it or not here in the US inner city boys are developing a subway style pole dance of their own, utilizing the poles, both vertical and horizontal inside subway cars.  It’s pretty incredible to see, which is why I chose to include it as the last video.  And just like Hip hop, Break-dancin, and Krumpin were born from the streets and embraced by young inner city kids, I expect to see this new urban dance grow in popularity as well. So no matter how you slice it pole dancing is sweeping the world and is here to stay.  So make sure you watch all the videos so you can see what I am talking about, and post a comment and let me know what you think,

by Anthony Hombrebailador







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Creole, This is who I am

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What is a Creole? It depends who you ask. Ask that question to a dozen different people who call themselves Creole, and you are likely to get at least two dozen different answers in almost as many languages. Their responses will vary based on the person’s age or where they grew up. The answer will even depend on race. Even among ethnic Creoles, some identify as White, some Black, some Native American some Hispanic, and some, all of the above.

There are two accepted definitions. In the United States, the original meaning of Creole, dating back to the 1700′s, was any person of French or Spanish descent who was born in Colonial Louisiana before the Louisiana Purchase. Later, as those Creoles and their progeny would marry or have children with Native Americans and slaves, those children were also referred to as Creoles. In modern times, the two groups are differentiated as French Creole and Louisiana Creole.

Their racial identity was a bit more complicated. A Creole person could have a legal status as White, Black, or a Free Person of Color, with their personal rights varying dependent on that status. Their racial classification was based not only upon strictly established ratios of African forebears, but also subjectively upon a person’s appearance.

It is this fluid sense of self that has made the Creoles a rarity among American ethnic groups . While maintaining an entirely separate and distinct culture of their own, Creoles have still managed to assimilate into American society as a whole.

Their impact on popular culture is evident everywhere. All over the nation, people of every race eat Gumbo, Jambalaya, and Shrimp Creole. Churches and dance venues across the South have Zydeco dance nights, with live bands keeping the traditional music alive. There has even been a Grammy award given for best Zydeco Album.

There are many famous Creoles. In music, Beyonce Knowles, Fats Domino, and Clifton Chenier are all Louisiana Creoles. Known as the “Marine’s Marine” and the “greatest of all leathernecks”, Lieutenant General John Arthur Lejeune, served as Commandant of the Marine Corps. On television, The Cosby Show had both Phylicia Rashad and Sabrina Le Beauf as mother and daughter.

Creoles are even represented in the animated world. On the long-running Fox show, King of the Hill, one of the main characters is “Bill”, or more properly, “Guillaume Fontaine de la Tour Dauterive”, who demonstrates his proficiency in Creole French, despite never having learned it. It is implied that he just instinctively understood his native tongue.

For all the inroads that Creoles have made into American society, they have fiercely clung to a strong sense of cultural identity. There is a Creole flag, despite the fact that there never was an actual Creole nation. French and French-based Louisiana Creole are still spoken by over a hundred thousand people in Louisiana and Texas.

Perhaps this duality of assimilation and isolationism can be explained by the Creoles own varied racial makeup. In the excellent documentary, “Too White to be Black Too Black to be White”, by Maurice M. Martinez, this dual identity is explored. One of the commentators therein was Marianne Jacques Newman, a poetess and educator, and she explained it best:

“The Creole is like the prototype of a melting-pot man. He has a little bit of this and a little bit of that. So I think what makes “Creole&” is that you have to recognize that you are part of many ethnicities. You’re not totally African-American, you’re not totally French, you’re not totally Spanish. You’re a combination of everything. I think recognizing that diversity is unique, because you say “THIS IS WHO I AM”

by Albert Fontenot

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Why do we dance?

originalHave you ever done this? You’re on the floor, the music is pulsing, perhaps you’ve had a bit of liquid courage and your body seemingly moves instinctually to the beat. Suddenly, you consciously think to yourself, “This is really odd; why am I doing this? Why do any of us do this?” If so, you are asking a question that has managed to elude anthropologists and archaeologists and remains a continuing mystery.
Dance exists in all cultures throughout the world. Almost everyone, some more than others, enjoy this most basic human behavior. There seems to be some mental satisfaction gained from moving rhythmically to music. This begs the question, if it is instinctual, does this mean we evolved to enjoy this behavior? Universal behaviors are not randomly acquired; we must have inherited this peculiarity through some need that pre-dates written history.
Evidence through illustrations on ceramic fragments found in Pakistan and the Danube Basin suggest that dance may have originated approximately 5000-9000 years ago. The world’s earliest definitive evidence of dance is a bronze figurine of a dancing girl discovered in the 4,000-year-old ruin of Mohenjo-Daro, an archaeological site situated in the province of Sindh, Pakistan. Scientists have also extrapolated information from the preserved ritual dances of preliterate societies. However, I wonder if it goes further back in history to a time before homo-sapiens even walked the Earth.
Though numerous cultures could be used as examples to discuss the evolution of dance, for the sake of brevity, I will only briefly discuss the Native American cultures. Their dances offer some of the best illustrations of dance as a form of communication. They used it to tell stories about war, tribal history and celestial events and other tribal concerns. Also, dance was used to give thanks to the gods or call on them for their blessings and guidance in fertility, sowing of crops, and hunting. As illustrated in the Ghost Dance, a trance like state is achieved which is characteristic of Asian and African cultural dances can be witnessed. Were the Native Americans influenced by another ancient people? Until recently, it is believed that the first people to inhabit North America were the Clovis people some 13,100 years ago. However, recent archaeological discoveries in the Paisley Caves of Oregon, pre- date this to 14,300. DNA that is closely related to the Native Americans has been discovered which has ties to Siberia and Asia. We know that those people came from the Middle East and from there, Mitochondrial DNA is traced to Human origins in Africa. Why did I deviate from the original topic of dance to genetic lineage? To establish that all persons originated from Africa and we all come from the same genetic pool. Hence, do genes play a role in the development of dance and how it evolved?
Scientists studied a large population of dancers and non-dancers and found that only the dancer population possessed two genes that are strongly associated with good social communication. Along with this, two other physical characteristics were also found in dancers. Serotonin levels tend to be higher which boost the moods in humans. Also, dancers tend to be more symmetrical which is associated with health and beauty. These three factors may be part of the answer as to why dancing in humans is culturally universal.
Let’s start with social communication. The ability to communicate effectively was essential and necessary for survival in prehistoric times. Those who could effectively communicate were more successful when hunting and gathering so they were healthier and stronger. Also, successfully reading the physical cues of others would give rise to better cooperation and less conflict within a social group. Did prehistoric people ostracize those that did not benefit their colony? This would certainly decrease the number of offspring that did not possess that genetic quality.
People with higher Serotonin levels tend to be more social, happier and well adjusted. They suffer from far less anxiety and tend to adapt well. One can see that those characteristics would have been beneficial if not almost essential to co-exist in any population be it human or otherwise.
Lastly, symmetry in humans is largely associated with beauty. Numerous studies have been performed that prove both males and females are attracted to faces and bodies that are proportionate and symmetrical. But it’s not only beauty that is at play here. Many genetic deformities and diseases are associated with asymmetry. It stands to reason that this attraction evolved as a way to keep the population healthy and strong.
Without a doubt, most humans love to dance; some more than others. Even though the experts may not have a definite answer as to when dance first came into existence, it is a distinct possibility that contemporary society inherited the ability and desire from our ancient ancestors. There is no longer a need for dance as a means of communication and survival and dance has now evolved to an art form as well as just a social past time . However, the group of women on the dance floor at their favorite hotspot, or, the couple dancing Salsa may seemingly be meaningless to many. Though, I would argue that their movements are more than just a way to entertain or call attention to their selves. They hearken back to our prehistoric ancestral need for physical communication as a means to survive. Many dancers would say that dance, even in contemporary society, is still necessary to their existence.

by Robin Clark

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The American Salsero

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What is an American Salsero and what makes them different from a Cuban or a Puerto Rican or Colombian Salsero?   Supposedly Salsa was first started in New York when Latin Immigrant musicians modified the rhythms of Mambo to create what we know today as Salsa.  So In theory that would make Salsa music itself a product of immigrant Americans, thus making the very first Salseros Americans in essence.  Popular theories tells us those Salsa rhythms then went back around the globe and were further refined into Cuban Salsa, Colombian Salsa, Puerto Rican Salsa, and even Mexican Salsa.  I can’t say for sure that’s what happened, I can only speculate what happened based on the stories I have heard, and unfortunately there always seems to be different story depending on who you ask.  In the days when I was first learning to dance Salsa back in 1997 to 2000, I started dancing Salsa as an outsider and did what I wanted on the dance floor, I didn’t really know what I was doing but I tried my best.  You see I am not Latin, I am part Black, French, and Native American Choctaw, and where I am from in Texas and Louisiana that combination is known as Creole.  When you’re a kid and growing up in Creole home you listen to and dance to Zydeco music, which just like Salsa and Mambo it has African roots.  Zydeco’s African rhythms came to Louisiana through slave trade, just like Mambo’s African rhythms went to Cuba, and Bomba and Plena went to Puerto Rico.  Most all Caribbean based music owes it rhythms to the Slaves that were sold to people all over the world, which is why you find African influences in music everywhere.  Needless to say growing up on a farm in Texas, I never had any exposure when I was young to Salsa or hardly any Latin music, so this dance was completely new to me. The only partner dancing I had ever done before was Zydeco, Slow dancing, and Square dancing in Elementary school.  So when I was introduced to the Latin scene in 1997 I was mesmerized by Salsa and Merengue both.  I tended to primarily dance Merengue because it was easier to do and I seem to already have a natural ability to do it.  But after about 6 months of dancing primarily Merengue with a little sloppy Salsa here and there, I decided to finally learn Salsa and become a Salsero.  Now back when I started there weren’t very many formal teachers or schools, not in Houston anyway.  And even if there were it was against my principles to learn to dance from some class.  I grew up dancing Funk and Disco at house parties, Break dancing in the streets, Hip Hop at school dances, and Zydeco at church functions.  Growing up we did all these dances without ever taking classes, you just did them naturally as kids.  So I adopted the same principle when it came to learning Salsa, just jump in the water and swim.  So I would watch the way Salseros danced and would try and mimic their movements, then I would fill in what I didn’t know how to do yet, with moves from the dances I knew.  But the Salseros back then didn’t like the way I danced, and they told me about it many times.  Now I personally don’t like to offend anyone’s culture, so I made it a point to learn to dance Old School Salsa.  And I accomplished this goal by dancing with the some of the older Salseras that were 1st generation Salsa dancers that also danced Mambo in their youth.  I also danced with 2nd generation Salsa dancers who’s parents were from that 1st generation of Salseros.  Now keep in mind when I first started dancing there was a lot of discussion about who danced Salsa better or who originated Salsa, Puerto Ricans or Cubans?  And then add Colombians and Mexicans to the mix and they all danced Salsa differently, and usually they all claimed each of their styles was the best.  And if that wasn’t crazy enough there was also a East Coast/West Coast debate about which style was better, LA style Salsa or NY style Salsa.  I couldn’t decided which way I wanted to dance, so I just mixed parts that I liked from all the Old School styles, and kept some of my moves that I brought to the table from my previous dance experience, and I created my own unique Salsa style.  But it was still Old School for the most part and rooted in traditional Salsa and Mambo.   And after 3 years of dancing with all types of dancers from all over the world, I eventually began to “get it” and feel the music and thus gained Old School Salseros respect.  Not just because I learned to dance Old School Salsa, but because I also embraced their culture, I went to their clubs and hangouts, even if it was in a bad neighborhood or a good one it didn’t matter.  I went to house parties, and birthday parties, I went to festivals and cultural activities, I even went to weddings and funerals with my new Salsa family.  I ate at all different types of restaurants and Cafes with them and had all kinds of great food.  I ate great Colombian, Cuban, Puerto Rican, Venezuelan, Salvadorean, and Mexican foods, they were all new and delicious to me.  And I especially enjoyed eating at after hours spots and having Consumé de Pollo and Empanadas after dancing.  So after my three years of trial by fire I was ingrained in the Latin culture and I became a normal part of it.  I also became a pretty out spoken person in regards to Salsa Dancing, but by no means did I consider myself an expert on the subject.  You see there was a new 3rd generations of Salsa dancers that were entering the scene, and they had no previous exposure to the original Salsa and Mambo dancers that myself and many of us had before.  Their Salsa was completely learned in a class room by people that were either 2nd generation Salsa dancers or Ballroom studio dance instructors.  Their style of instruction was based on an 8 count dance system called “On1″ or “On2″ Salsa dancing.  The one or two described when you stepped on the first or second movement of your 8 count of the music.  It was all very technical and lacking the cultural elements of dancing just from your heart and listening to the “Clave” rhythm.  Now don’t get me wrong all styles of Salsa have their pluses and their minuses, and in the past I was biased towards “Old School” or “Street” Salsa as they call it.  The things that I wrote back then and currently write now were not for the sole purpose of putting down new Salsa dancers or their style.  In the past because of the animosity that was created by this new wave of dancers, I may have been a little harsh in labeling them “Ballroomeros”, which didn’t help them understand what my complaints were about.  My primary purpose in my blogs was to let Old School Salseros know that they didn’t need to give up and let the current generation of Salsa dancers take over their cultural dance.  I wrote my original blogs to let the 3rd generation Salsa dancers, and the Classroom/Ballroom Salsa dancers know that we were upset with the way things were changing and the attitudes that they have towards original Salseros.  You see in 2000 Salsa started catching the attention of mainstream America, as a result of that curiosity Salsa schools, teachers, tapes, movies, and TV programs started popping up everywhere.  Everyone was an expert, everyone could teach you how to dance “Real” Salsa, every Salsa club had a free Salsa class, I even taught at a few clubs before I realized I hated teaching.  Non Salsa clubs even started offering a Salsa night, and new Salsa clubs opened that weren’t even owned by Latinos.  Salsa was taking America by storm and everyone was capitalizing on its popularity.  The problem that I had or have depending on how you look it, is that what about the people that came before us, what do they have left of their dance from their culture?  Also new Salsa dancers wouldn’t dance with the Old School Salseros because they didn’t keep the same “On1″ or “On2″ count that they learned in class.  They would tell Salseros that had been dancing anywhere from 10 to 30 years that they danced off count and didn’t know how to dance. That to me that was completely rude to learn something in a class room for 6 months, and then go social dancing and tell a Salsero that their cultural dance, that they have been doing all their life, is being done incorrectly.  And the sad part of this whole thing was, some of the 2nd and 3rd generation Salseros started to believe it and would take classes to correct their so called “off beat” Salsa.  And even worse the newcomers that weren’t exposed to Old School Salsa were being deprived of the experience of learning to dance the original style.  And that’s unfortunately the American way, assimilate something cultural and make it commercial.  Like I said earlier I am part Black and Native American, I know a little something about the raping and assimilation of a culture. You see what happens here in America, they find something unique about a culture that interests them, then they learn about it, they find a way to reproduce it, simplify it and trim away the unnecessary ethnic elements, and make it efficient.  Then they commercialize it and make lots of money, and they eliminate or alienate the originators from their own culture and heritage and then reap the benefits.  I have seen it with African slaves, indentured servants, the Chinese immigrants, the Mexicans native to North America, and many other immigrants that built this country for free or for peanuts.  You have all these diverse people in America that all got here through some type of struggle, and they all brought their unique culture, food, music, dance and heritages with them.  And when its something that most Americans have never seen or experienced before it makes it even more appealing to them.  But Americans want the experience to be on their terms, without having to actually mix with the people that exposed them to the original source.  For example you had Rock and Roll stealing lyrics and rhythms for their music from Rhythm and Blues, the White artists made millions while the Black artists made pennies.  In the 50′s most White Tap, Jazz, and Swing dancers became huge stars after stealing their moves from Black and Latin dancers.  I guess they should have felt lucky when they put them in the shows and movies as background dancers or buffoons for comic relief.   I personally never want to be a part of something that’s going to destroy or exploit someone else’s culture, which is why I made strides to learn Salsa the way Old School Salseros did by living the culture.  I like to experience and learn about different cultures and I want to dance Salsa as close as I can to the way it was originally danced to show respect for their heritage.  Don’t get me wrong I am all for cultural evolution, but I think we should let the salsa dancers evolve on their own, in their own time, and their own way, without forcing an 8 count down their throat.  Don’t tell them they are doing it wrong or their dance style is old fashioned, don’t tell people they have to take classes to do it right, there is no right way to dance.  Dance is about self expression and interacting with your dance partner, and you miss that experience when you are both just counting it out and focusing on the count, instead of feeling the music.  But this is only a suggestion everyone has a right to their own opinion and the way that they want to dance, even if you are an Old School Salsero, or 3rd or even 4th generation On1 or On2 Salsa dancer its your choice.  And I am not saying don’t take classes to learn the basics to get a start.  But don’t become a professional beginner and that’s all you learn is how to count out your dance moves.  REAL DANCING COMES FROM YOUR HEART, you feel each individual beat and you can dance any way you feel.  Experiment with it, you can add foot slides, body shakes, gyrations, dramatic pauses, shines, dips, turns, spins, arm movements, and the such.  And this “New” Salsa has brought some exciting elements to Salsa dancing, I love the cross-body lead and all the extra turns that I have learned.  I have always loved dips and flipping girls and that was hardly done in Old School Salsa.  I enjoy these new elements that became accepted with the new wave of Salsa dancers.  I feel now that there is a bridge between Old School Salsa and New Salsa, and if a dancer chooses they can learn to dance a little of both.  Remember anyone can paint a picture with a paint by numbers canvas. You just have to match the colors with the numbers and stay within the lines and it will look somewhat like a real painting.  That is until you see a Monet, Renoir, Da Vinci, or a Salvador Dali painting, then you see the difference between painting within the lines, and what a master does with controlled brush strokes and a blank canvas.  So to sum it all up, I don’t expect everyone to dance my style unless they are dancing with me specifically.  If you are a new Salsa dancer that dances by counting and it works for you, then more power to you.  Just don’t be a ignorant Salsa dancers that thinks dancing “on 1 or on 2″ is better than original Salsa.  I don’t think any style is better than another, Its all in the individual that dances it at the best of their ability.  I know some “On1″ and “On2″ Salsa dancers that can dance their butts off.  And I know some guys in their 50′s and 60′s that can burn up the dance floor with Old School moves you have never seen before.  The key to all of my statements is that you have to dance with anyone and everyone and try to learn from them.  And don’t get me wrong not every Old School Salsa dancer is a great dancer, there are some bad ones out there as well that won’t teach you anything.  But anyone can learn to feel the music, it just takes time and patience.  And listen to the “Old School” salsa music, if you listen to it long enough it will find its way into your heart and soul,  and eventually it will light this fire in you, then you will be able to dance to it by just feeling it.

by Anthony Hombrebailador

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